Pregnancy Update – 28 Weeks
As the title suggests, I’m still pregnant! Four weeks ago, Ben and I were informed that I had a 50% chance of delivering our daughter by 28 weeks. We were exceedingly aware of the possibility of having an extremely premature daughter that required months of NICU time and could have severe disabilities or fatal complications. It was emotionally draining.
23 week belly! Vince Sweater, Burberry Trench, AG Maternity Jeans, Volcom Sandals, Celine Bag
My previous posts describe my two hospitalizations. After the second hospitalization I was discharged home on bedrest. The first few weeks of bedrest were challenging. I initially felt pretty sick and fatigued from all of the medications I was given. But sleep did not come easy with my nightmares and night sweats. But as the days passed, those symptoms eventually subsided. Then came the intense anxiety. When my body decided to have frequent contractions, I’d wonder if they’d let up or worsen and progress. When I noticed watery discharge, I worried that I was leaking amniotic fluid. On top of the anxiety, I generally just felt unwell. Normal pregnancy symptoms like heartburn, bloating and headaches were coupled with side effects of bedrest, most notably aches and soreness of my back and hips that were so intense they would wake me from sleep in tears.
I still have this anxiety. And I still feel unwell. But I’m finding ways to manage both of these things, although I definitely have better days and worse days.
I’m grateful to still be pregnant, and I’m so relieved with each passing day. I’m grateful for my wonderful family and friends, who have been supportive throughout this. I’m grateful for my job, and my wonderfully understanding bosses and coworkers. And I’m grateful for you, the readers of this blog, who reach out and share stories and well wishes. Its means more to me than you know.
Happy for you and may you carry on till atleast 33 weeks..it will be ok..
I’m so sorry that your pregnancy has turned into one of discomfort and anxiety, but I am so happy that baby is still cooking away, safe and sound. Every day you stay pregnant is a day of health and growth for your little one. My 26 weeker is just over one now and as healthy and developmentally on track as can be (we are so, so fortunate); beaming you healthy, feel-bettyer thoughts, and please don’t hesitate to reach out if I can be of any service.
I was wondering how how you were doing and I’m glad you and baby are ok 🙂
I am so so happy to hear that you guys are still pregnant – this is such great news! Please keep us updated – we are all crossing our fingers you guys get a few more months before she decides to show herself 🙂
Love you Amber,
Thank you for the updates.
I’ve been anxiously waiting for updates, so I’m very relieved to read that you’re still pregnant. I had difficulties with my pregnancies as well (in the 3rd trimester and postpartum). You look great, in spite of you feeling unwell. We’re rooting for you and your little one!
I am so relieved you are hanging in there and still pregnant. Your readers are praying for you and your baby girl. Keep your spirits up! Best wishes being sent your way that you’re able to complete your pregnancy to full term and deliver a happy, healthy baby girl soon enough!
Aww, somewhat relieved to read this after the last few posts, although I recognize you aren’t feeling 100%. Sending happy, get well thoughts! My close friend suffered a placental abruption this summer, and after a week of bed rest she gave birth prematurely. It was scary enough to watch, so I cannot even imagine living through something similar. She said the waiting was the worst part. But she somehow made it through. You’re both all the more brave and strong for it.
Happy to hear that your baby girl is sill incubating in your belly. Bed rest is difficult. I was very swollen after 6 weeks on bedrest. Post delivery I would sweat all day. Take the time to read and catch up on TV
I’m really glad that things continue to go well; but sorry that you’re experiencing some discomfort. 🙁
Sending good vibrations your way. Keep us updated!
Jen
You have been in my thoughts and prayers lately. Just wanted you to know.
Thank you for sharing your experience and I’m glad baby is ok and staying in you a little longer! xx, Erin – http://www.stylebythepeople.com